All too often whenever there are problems in life we do our best to avoid them as much as possible. Many family breakups come as a shock to all or any family members, yet it is not something that took place starightaway. The dissention in the household has been growing over a period, and as being a snowball rolling down hill it has been getting bigger and bigger.
There is no family member that is not affected for some reason by a family that is falling apart. So what do you do? Can you just accept it as inevitable, in the end there are a multitude of family breakups every year. Do you keep your fingers crossed and hope that it’ll all blow over and at the very least the household will tolerate one another? This is not what a family is meant to end up like, and until at least one family member faces the issue that there is an issue here then things are going to get a lot worse. In many instances it will be among the parents that finally bring the problem to a head.
There may be family teens in the home and sometimes their wisdom outweighs that of the parents, since they can see things from the different prospective. As adults though we have been brain washed into convinced that the kids are simply too inexperienced and too young to be able to contribute anything of value to the shaky family atmosphere. Instead we do our best to shield them from what is happening, and yet their observations likely have given them a far better look at what the true situation is.
The question is how to put the household back together again? Now we’re able to raise the question is the family unit salvageable? This however is a negative question, and the first method of a healing family should be a positive one.
As said it all begins will just one family member taking that first step to state hey, you can find problems in the family. The next thing is to say we are a family group, this is usually a family problem and we have to work it out as a family group. As soon as you adopt this attitude then you have set the foundation to start out the household healing. Remember though as with funny family feud questions will see scars. Scars from the damaged family have to be accepted and dealt with.
Since you can probably see there is absolutely no quick answer to the perfect solution is to put the household back together again, but there is a long term answer. This raises another question, which comes down to is your family important enough to place the time and effort into to make it better again?